04 June 2008
Is it evil of me to gloat when I find out my friend quarreled with his gf and their relationship is on the rocks now? Ah, a bit of background info first.
This 'friend' of mine is a guy who was well-known as a playboy and I (was unfortunately and naively) also dragged into the delusion that he likes me. He played along, asking me out everyday, doing sweet things and finally when I was going to take it to the next level, he rejected me point blank. The bad thing was, he told our other guy friends about it. And the worst, he still makes rather degrading (sometimes pervy) remarks like calling me a "budak tembam yg sombong" until now. That was my first and last foray into falling within the same clique.
Anyway, he quarreled with the gf because apparently her (male) colleague calls/sms her often and he doesn't like that. He feels threatened because she is a pretty girl with good style sense that men like to look at. Do I see guilt in his actions? Perhaps he regrets the time that he played around with girls and is worried that now that he has a gf, his gf might fall prey to other guys?
Now he calls me and my other gal friends often asking to go out because he feels lonely. Oh, where was he when we wanted to go out and he just got together with his current gf? MIA of course. So sorry boy, but we have our own lives too...