Writings of someone who is NOT a bubblehead

This is a conversation I had with a friend of mine recently.

Me: gambar u ni kan, sll tukar2. Minah lain2 plak tu
Player: hahahhahahahahhahahaa! bese!
Player: sile komen
Player: im hot! tukar2 gurl
Me: ewwwwwww
Player: nk buat cmne. mmg mmpu. hahaa!
Player: klu u pasan, yg komen i..sume pompuan
Player: i menunggu komen lelaki..tk kunjung tiba
Me: sbb derang sibuk korek2 facebook u utk tgk gambar kawan2 pompuan u
Player: hahha..maybe?
Player: pastu bising2 kat i
Player: bro..sape chick tue..knal kan kat aku
Player: wadafak?
Me: standard
Me: member2 laki pon sll mcm tu
Me: tgk gambar pastu tanya "minah ni siapa?"
Player: hahahahahahhahh! tau tkper.
Player: lantak dieorg la
Player: i mmg tk layan pn
Player: nk chick carik sendri ar
Player: ingat aku sng2 ke dpt
Player: hahaha
Player: lain la muke i hot cam ashraf sinclair ker
Player: tkper gak

Do woman succumb to hot looks? Or just sweet words. In my friend's case, I think its his 'charm'.

Do the nice guys always finish last then? What do u ppl think?

Its been a while dear bloggie. I’ve had soo much on my plate. All my blogs are neglected. Oh well. Life has been rather interesting so far. I attended a course that would increased my understanding my field. Now looking for a job without much success.

Anyway, looking back at my previous omg-i-just-broke-up-boo-hoo posts, I decided to write about something that has been in my drafts for some time now – The Blogger Breakup.

Bloggers are people who like to share their lifes (this does not include those niche bloggers who blog about tech, politics or whatever else that does not include personal lives). So when they are in love, they want to share it. And share it they do, with pics and lovey dovey posts where all is right with the world and the birds are singing. Its multiplied by two if BOTH parties are bloggers. So much so that sometimes they even use the same template (yea, yours truly was included *cringe*).

So what do you do when you break up? What do you do with all those photos, those posts and those little messages and stories that you write about each other? My ex used to put as his tagline that his life was sweetened by me – he changed it soon after of course – changed his whole template in fact. And the posts and photos? Do you delete them? Do you keep them? Or do you go back and edit every phrase of “my bf/gf” to “my ex-bf/ex-gf”?

The weirdest part (for me at least) is wondering if every post after that is related to you. If the other party posts lyrics, you’d think, “is that referring to me/us/him?” when in actual fact, she just wants to share that song so that her blog will get hits (thats what I did). Then you’d have to think, “will he/she have the wrong impression about this post?”

Is it only girls who think this way? I bet some (if not all) the guys also think this way too.

What do you think? If you and your ex were bloggers, what would you do?

been a while since i’ve updated this blog. Exactly – peeks at last post – 3 weeks since my last post. Life has been rather good, albiet tiring.

My friends are in some kind of situation. Its a situation where “there’s something I dont like about your action but I don’t want/don’t know how/not sure if I should tell it to you face”. Geddit? As of now, it has just started and I’m kinda stuck in the middle. We’ll see how it plays out

There’s this friend of mine that I have been was going out with regularly. The usual – movie, makan and occasional sleepovers (twice now to be exact). I was starting to feel as if he was getting too attached, calling our outings “dates” and texting a lot every day. Or am I afraid that I’m using him as a substitute – as a way to fill my boredom?

I try not to.

But it does seem that way. I mean, its nice to have someone to accompany you for dinner and cuddle during movies but when he tries to hold my hand, i flinch. But I do it anyway, because he likes it (and it also feels weird if he keeps trying to hold my hand and i keep pushing it away. lol).

Notice that i mentioned “WAS” in the 3rd paragraph above. Well, I kind of cut down communication with him since last Saturday. Stopped texting him unless he texted me first. I don’t like to be accused of using people. Plus, he has a girlfriend. I think. I mean, what guy spends time almost every 2 days with someone else if he has a gf already? Men. *rolls eyes*

Internet was down last week. This week, I dont hv a car because someone rammed my bumper last saturday. I cringe at the thought of what’s comming up next week

Been a while since I posted here, yes? I’m tired today. Went outstation on Friday night for a friend’s wedding, got lost on the way, stayed up all night talking, woke up in the afternoon, got all dolled up for the kenduri then drove back.

You know when your body’s so tired but you can’t sleep? I usually text my friends but apparently everyone is out of reach today. Oh well, its the weekend and everyone’s out partying or lepaking i suppose. Well actually I did get invited for a clubbing session but I’m just too tired.

Tired tired.

And after 2-3 mths of not thinking about him, suddenly i miss him :(

He posted this on his blog today. I’m pretty sure its for me. Needless to say, I melted into tears

And this is day 9